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Being of Service to Mothers Means Listening First

05 / 06 / 25

This article explores the critical role of deep, attuned listening as the foundation for effective maternal mental health care. In a healthcare landscape that often prioritizes efficiency and symptom management, the act of slowing down to truly hear a mother’s story becomes a radical and transformative intervention. Drawing from psychodynamic principles, the author illustrates how emotions frequently labeled as pathological—such as anxiety, anger, or overwhelm—often carry deeper relational and existential meaning within the context of new motherhood. Through clinical reflection and personal experience, the piece underscores the importance of honoring the full emotional landscape of motherhood, including grief, joy, ambivalence, and vulnerability. By creating therapeutic spaces that foster emotional honesty and connection, providers can move beyond prescriptive checklists to develop more accurate, compassionate, and effective treatment plans. The author advocates for a model of care rooted in relational presence, where listening is not a passive act but an essential service that empowers mothers to feel seen, validated, and capable in their transition to motherhood.

by Taylor Barragan
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